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Longing

Come to me in my dreams, and then By day I shall be well again!

For so the night will more than pay The hopeless longing of the day

Twin Flames

Come, as thou cam’s a thousand times A messenger from radiant climes And smile on thy new world, and be As kind to others as to me!

Or, as thou never cams’t in sooth. Come now, and let me dream it truth. And part my hair and kiss my brow, And say, My love why suffers thou?

Come to me in my dreams, and then By day I shall be well again!

For so the night will more than pay The hopeless longing of the day.

Matthew Arnold

I think this says it so well, that longing for our other half.

Well, I was recently asked to do a video about twin flames. I have shied away from this subject so far, because there seems to be so much misinformation out there about this subject. I mean, where did the term even come from? It turns out that the theory of twin flames or twin souls was first mentioned by Plato 2500 years ago, where he speaks of how humans were split in two and have since been destined to search for their other half. I have had my own person experience with this phenomenon, so I can say that I definitely know that each of us has at least one other fragment of self, but I will save that for a future video. I will also say that, from my view, the validity of the twin flame conception isn’t quite what it’s often presented to be by the new age community. And I’ll also include here, that please do not feel you need to take my word for any of this that I am about to state. This is only my own interpretation of that which was brought forth through my research and my own higher knowledge. If this resonates with you great. If not, at least it’s another piece of information you can either add and integrate into your own ideas and beliefs, or to let it go as something that doesn’t quite fit your own concept of reality.

The reason I say the twin flame idea can often be filled with disinformation, comes from what I’ve watched or read through my own research. For example, one statement that I thought was pretty negligent was from a newly favored YouTuber who has been saying that you will not be able to ascend to 5D without your twin flame. This is not only irresponsible, but is very discouraging for his followers or those who believe him, because realistically, this would mean that for the majority of humans on the planet, they’re doomed to stay in 3D. This statement, if considered, takes away hope and motivation in those who have not yet found this elusive other half. It’s just thoughtless and very misguided. Plus the fact that this would invalidate nearly every true master who’s ever ascended from planet earth. They ascended because they became their soul essence, which encompasses all aspects of self. As they rose in frequency, they incorporated that other half, that mirror self within the very core of their being.

And yet another popular YouTuber advises that even if you’re awakened and in a loving committed relationship, that this not enough to assure your transformation onto the new Earth - that uniting with your twin flame is the only guarantee. Is this is only egotistical boasting to gain followers? What a shame. Additionally, the pressure this type of misleading information lays on a light worker is so tragic and unnecessary.

So first let’s mention the idea of soulmates. Is this a different concept altogether, or virtually the same thing? My understanding of a soulmate is another person with whom you have a very strong lifelong bond of love or friendship - someone who accepts you exactly as you are - someone you fully resonate with and choose to be with. This can be a romantic partner like a spouse, or maybe a friend or mentor, or an enemy, your rival or adversary, or a sibling, or child. This person is a part of your soul family who has traveled with you through lifetimes. It’s that person you are drawn to and can talk with for hours at a time and at some point even begin finishing each other’s sentences. Or it’s that person you just don’t like or can’t get along with and you can’t figure out why they bother you so much. This is because this person is a part of your own soul and is expressing that same trail you despise in yourself. A soulmate is a fragment of your own soul.

Conversely, a twin soul or twin flame, for all intents and purposes, is your spiritual partner, a soul companion with the identical motivation and purpose that you hold within your soul journey and physical incarnations. When you do come together during a lifetime, it usually during a time in life when you are both ready for a spiritual push - where the soul has reached a point in evolution where they are ready to move forward and advance at a faster rate. You come together to nurture the other and to mirror unconditional love. You will only meet when you have both reawakened and are now resonating at the same or similar frequency, expressing the same spiritual goals and this will usually occur during your last earthly incarnation. This companion will appear, usually as a romantic partner or lover and has reached the same stage of evolution and is in life to help you to accomplish those goals within the ascending lifetime - or any lifetime as far as that goes. This you do for each other.

You will only attract your twin flame when you are able to reach beyond the weaknesses that would cause harmful insecurities in the relationship, like jealousy or suspicion. These limitations would at least need to be recognized before this union could take place. It’s not that the twin flame doesn’t exist until you are whole. This soul fragment will always exist, because it is you - a part of you and will always be. It’s just that the union is only necessary within a physical incarnation, to assist each other into climbing through the densities, through recognizing and addressing all those issues you came to face in your lifetime, like karma, fear, energetic blocks, or attachments, or anything else that needs to be revealed and released before moving higher. There is no better or clearer soul-mirror than your twin flame. You become the inspiration for each other, encouraging and motivating, usually without purposely doing this - it is just a natural ingredient to being a twin soul. Nothing can keep you apart when this stage is reached - although this does not mean it’s necessary to be physically together - this energetic bond is so strong it will never be broken and can be felt across the world, across time, across space. This person doesn’t have to be in a physical life and could, from the other side, facilitate as your spirit guide. And as you both ascend into the higher densities, you will no longer be two individuals, but an integration of both, into one.

If you’re familiar with the story of Billy Fingers, he had a very difficult earth life and died alone as a human and as his soul progressed through the levels on the other side, it was in those higher realms that he met his twin flame, his spiritual other half. Most accounts of those who ascended this plane into the higher realms did so alone, but whole within themselves. They integrated all parts of their being into the oneness they were in that moment of ascension. And we should believe that we are any different? Even Jesus was said to proclaim to his people, these things I do, you can do, and greater. It’s not that I’m suggesting that you shouldn’t hope to attract your spiritual flame, I’m just pointing out that it’s important to your soul to live fully now. This is why you came. The only thing we come here to do, is to love. We are love and we come here to share that love with all and when give love, we are fulfilling our role as spirit, we are being that which we already are.

It is most important to remember this is you - your journey. You need no one else but you - you’re not waiting for someone to make you whole - you are already whole - it is up to you to realize this and when you do you will find you have everything, you are everything you will ever need for this or any other lifetime. You are the creator and the created. It is you just as you are who is the awakened one - you who walks the awakened path.

The danger in waiting for another to make you whole is the admission that you are not whole. If anyone tells you that you must wait for another before you can be all you can be, this is a trap. Waiting for anyone or anything else to fulfill you and make you worthy of ascension is allowing yourself to be manipulated by those who wish to hold you back in order to elevate themself. Don’t fall for the rhetoric of a romantic “other” to come and save you. This is the same story told by the controllers who created the new-age savior narrative, of ETs coming to rescue you and save the Earth. If you wait for this to happen - you will wait forever. Be your own savior. Don’t wait to be the spectacular being you already are. Be that magnificent soul you came to be. Love and be loved, know the joys of living in this moment for the grandness of that very moment you and your vibration have set before you. Waiting is the controller’s game. Don’t buy into it. Be your radiant self and shine your glorious light for all to see. You want to attract your twin flame? Be the flame you wish to attract and you will find, it was you all along. It’s wonderful to unite with your twin soul during a physical incarnation and I wish that for all of us. But please, don’t give up your life for something that may be out of your soul journey for this lifetime. When we’re able to surrender to our true path and accept life as it comes, this is when the pathways will merge and that other half will suddenly appear, as if by magic and you will recognize yourself in that other’s eyes. Simply be yourself and get out there and shine!

Thanks everyone. Bye!